Hi folks. I'm Kathy Fray: a wife, mother, and research Midwife at Auckland University (after almost a decade of 24-7 on-call midwifery). I am also New Zealand's best-seller author of "OH BABY ... Birth, Babies & Motherhood Uncensored", and author of the popular international book "OH GROW UP ... Toddlers to PreTeens Decoded", and I was grateful to win a mind-body-spirit award with my manuscript "OH GOD - WHAT THE HELL DO I TELL THEM?! Guide for vaguely spiritual parents". Right now, I'm also a bit behind (aren't all writers) in finishing my next book "OH MAMA - Midwife's Guide to Integrative Maternity Healthcare" (as the founding director of the SOMCANZ conferences on integrative maternity healthcare).